Self-esteem & confidence

Support for self-esteem and confidence

A confidential space to explore where low self-esteem comes from, and build a steadier sense of yourself. Online or by telephone.

At a glance

Provider
Ann Purves
Professional status
Registered Member MBACP, registration 00988953. Verify on the BACP Register.
Approach
Integrative, mostly person-centred, drawing on CBT and psychodynamic techniques
Format
Telephone or secure online video
Fee
£50 / 1 hour · £30 / 30 minutes
Clients
Adults and young people from age 5
Coverage
UK-wide, based in Newcastle upon Tyne
First step
Email ann@annpurves.com or call 07856 187641
Not a diagnosisthe NHS treats self-esteem as part of general wellbeing, not a clinical condition
Often linkedlow self-esteem can sit alongside anxiety or low mood

How Ann works with self-esteem and confidence

Ann works integratively, mostly person-centred, offering a warm, non-judgemental space to explore where a pattern of self-criticism or low confidence has come from. This can draw on CBT-informed techniques for noticing unhelpful self-talk, psychodynamic exploration of where those patterns first took root, often in earlier experiences or relationships, and for some clients an empty-chair exercise, which gives a harsh inner critic an actual shape and a voice, rather than leaving it as background noise.

Person-centred Psychodynamic CBT-informed techniques Empty-chair work

Who this can help

Self-esteem and confidence concerns show up at any age: young people navigating school, friendships or growing up, and adults facing pressure at work, in relationships, or during a period of change. It's a common thread alongside other things people bring to counselling, including anxiety and low mood.

Common questions

Self-esteem & confidence, explained

Can counselling help with low self-esteem?

Yes. Counselling offers a confidential, non-judgemental space to explore where low self-esteem or confidence has come from, and to build a steadier, kinder sense of yourself over time.

Is low self-esteem a mental health condition?

Not in itself. The NHS treats self-esteem as part of general wellbeing rather than a diagnosable condition, and offers self-help guidance alongside talking therapy as ways to build it. Low self-esteem can, however, sit alongside or contribute to anxiety or low mood, which are worth mentioning if they're also present.

What approach is used for self-esteem and confidence in sessions?

Ann works integratively, mostly person-centred, drawing on CBT-informed techniques for noticing self-critical thought patterns, psychodynamic exploration of where those patterns first developed, and, for some clients, an empty-chair exercise to give a shape and a voice to a harsh inner critic rather than leaving it as background noise.

Is this counselling for adults or young people?

Both. Self-esteem and confidence concerns come up at every age, from young people navigating school and friendships to adults facing pressure at work or in relationships.

Can I have self-esteem counselling online or by phone across the UK?

Yes. Sessions are available UK-wide by secure online video or telephone. £50 for a 1-hour session, £30 for a 30-minute session.

Ready to talk it through?

Send me an email or give me a call and we'll find a time that works.